What to do when you don’t know where to start

One of the challenges many of my clients have is feeling overwhelmed with where to start when it comes to changing their relationship with food.  Many people come with the all-or-nothing approach from the dieting mentality that they tend to have periods of doing really well followed by periods of falling off the wagon.

When it comes to overcoming binge eating and emotional eating, there are really many places you could start - should you change what you eat, how you eat, when you eat? Should you start with exercise? It can be overwhelming!

There’s a saying that goes “All Roads Leads to Rome,” which in your health journey means that really any place you start is a good starting point. In a coaching relationship, we assume that the client is the expert, because the best path forward is really the one that works for you and your lifestyle?

So should you do when you don’t know where to start? Here’s an exercise that can help:

STEP 1: Write down the goal/intention on top of your sheet

STEP 2: Grab a piece of paper and brain dump all potential ideas/steps that can help you towards your goal

STEP 3: Reading over the list, outline the following

  • The EASY step

  • The HARD/CHALLENGING step

  • The FUN step

  • The “MOST BANG-FOR-YOUR-BUCK” step

STEP 4: Read over the choices and then make a decision on what makes the most sense for you to start. You might find your step may be to gather more information.**

**One caveat of course is to set a deadline for when you’ll decide. For some people, researching is their way of avoiding taking action.**

The key really is to start and get the momentum going. As you continue, you’ll find it easier to add on new steps.

Of course, if you still feel overwhelmed or stuck, it may be time to get the help of an expert. Being a coach and someone who is personally susceptible to paralysis by analysis, I’ve worked with many coaches myself who were experts and who could help me decide the best method for me as well as provide accountability.

If I can be of help to you, please do not hesitate to reach out to me at contact@coachingwithkeia.com or to apply for a complimentary “Breakthrough to Food Freedom Session” ($250 value). I can help you get clear on your next steps to get the momentum moving forward.

Posted on August 23, 2019 .